What does it feel like when you can see the sand slipping relentlessly from between your fingers...when everything that you once held so dear to you, everything that mattered to you, evreything that formed the very essence of your life fritters away..right in front of you, and all that you can do is grope with your helpnessness to stop it from happening?
Life evolves, new changes spring up...new challenges show up..and you most readily accept them too..God must us all strong, and we must prove our worth...but, you gain some, and you lose some. Gaining is a wonderful experience, then why do we fret over things that no longer remain with us..maybe because what we gained is still new, unknown territory for us, still waiting to be explored...but what you lose is what you knew in all its hues-whites, greys and blacks. But should that prevent one from appreciating what we gained, what we have?